WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER SON A DAY BEFORE HIS WEDDING

WHAT A MOTHER TOLD HER SON A DAY BEFORE HIS WEDDING
Mummy’s boy, you are now a man. Tomorrow you will have a new mother, a new cook and a new person to share all your secrets with. It will no longer be me but her. Love your new mum even more than you love me. Before you walk into her arms forever, let me give you some words to guide you.

There was a day I was arguing with your father. We were screaming, Tempers were high. I was angry and He was angry. Then I called him an idiot! He was shocked, He looked at me asking how dare I call him that, Immediately started calling him idiot, fool, stupid, crazy, I called him all sort of name. Guess what he did? He didn’t raise his hands to hit me. He just walked away, banging the door as he went out.
My Son, If your father had hit me and destroyed my eyes, how will you feel sitting here with me today? How will you regard him as your father? Would you have been proud of him or would you be blaming me for calling him names? Never hit your wife! No matter the provocation just walk away and things will be normal. Whenever she offends you, think of this story I just told you, it could have been your mum!
Before I forget, after he left, I was filled with guilt. We slept on same bed that night and I went to him the next day. I pleaded with him, I did all I could to show am sorry and he forgave me. That day I cooked his favourite food, yes you know he loves Pounded yam & Vegetable soup right? After that day, I never called him names, my respect for him was ten times stronger.

There is something very important you must always do, my son listen very carefully, defend your wife. When she is under pressure, stand by her. If your friends hates her, it is your duty to make them see her as a Queen. Your Uncle, I mean Uncle Yusuf, never liked me. But Ur father was always supportive until his perception changed.

There was a day your Father was going to host the owner of his company and friends. They were three of them. That day I was in the kitchen cooking for them and your father went to buy drinks. When the table was set and food was served. Everyone started eating. Then I remembered I did not add salt in the food. I was embarrassed. Your father tasted the food and looked at me. He immediately turned to the guests. He told them that he instructed his wife last month not to add salt whenever she is cooking because of some problem with his body. He said it in a funny way and everyone laughed! The guests understood and he asked me to bring salt and everyone added according to their taste. He managed to eat the food without salt. After the guest left, he went on his knees and asked God to forgive him for lying.

Your wife is like a baby, sometimes she don’t know what to say or do. Stand up and speak for her!

Now let me talk to you about Sex. You see Sex is a wonderful thing. Do not be surprised if your wife enjoy and need Sex more than you do. There were days, I needed Sex more than your father and there were days he needed it more than me but the important thing is to always try to satisfy the other when they need you. Don’t always think of your self.

There was a time things were hard and I needed to do two jobs to support your father. One night I was so tired. When I got to bed he was in the mood. He try to make love to me and I didn’t refuse him. I was tired but I felt I needed to be there when he need me. When he tried undressing me, he saw my look and he stopped. He asked what was wrong and I said nothing. But he understand me better. He stopped and then started telling me stories until I fell asleep.

My son, Sex is best enjoyed when the two parties are physically and mentally ready for it. Sometimes, read your wife and understand her.
Make it a habit to go anywhere with your wife. Beside your job, move around with her. If anyone invite you to his house and told you not to come with your wife then be very careful. Use wisdom.

I know you love mummy… I know you tell me all your problems. But now things will be different.
Let your wife be the first to know before me. Let her be the first to see before me.
When you have problems with her don’t run to me immediately. Wait for a day to pass and then talk to her about it. Pray about it. Report her to nobody but talk issues out within yourself.

Finally, don’t forget to come and visit me with your wife every month!
I know you will have a happy home. You will always be mummy’s boy. God will bless Ur home. Pls don't forget God, pray & seek His assistance always..
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10 FACTS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT THE SHI'A GROUP

10 FACTS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT THE SHIA 1. Shi'a stands for Shi'at Ali- faction of Ali, that is the cousin of the Prophet who married Fatima, the Prophet's daughter from whom were Hasan and Husain. Allah says, "Hold fast to the rope of Allah together; do not be divided,"Q3:83. The Prophet said, "No factionalism in Islam." It's thus Haram (prohibited) to form a religious faction with a divisive slogan and motto. It is therefore Haram to be part of or support in any way those who oppose the instruction of Allah and His Messenger. 2.One of the signs of the deviants is that they coin names for their movement from their real or supposed leaders, e.g., Buddhism from Buddha, Christianity from Christ, Tijaniyya from Ahmad Tijani and Ahmadiyya from Ghulam Ahmad. In most cases, adherents of those religious orders worship their acclaimed leaders. The shia worship their assumed leaders. Shi'at Ali are deviants as religious orders above are. It's hero worship and polytheism. 3. Both Shiite and Sunni references agree on the diabolical roles played by one Abdullah bin Sabai. Ali had wanted to banished him from Muslim lands but he was dissuaded. It's this Abdullah and his followers who promoted a lame claim that that the Prophet willed that Ali was his divine successor. He encouraged denigration of the Companions of the Prophet whom he accused of betraying the Prophet after his demise. It's this that led to the Shi'a rejection of the Ahadith of the Prophet reported by the Companions and their children, and the disquieting doubt they have about the authenticity of the Qur'an. He went into extremes in extolling Ali and his children so as to earn sympathy of the Muslims and to cover up his evils, and eventually won over some ignorant Muslims. Abdullah bin Sabai was the ringleader of the murderers of the third caliph: Uthman-husband of two daughters of the Prophet. Abdullah bin Sabai was a Jew who claimed to revert to Islam. He and his cohorts were implanted into Islam in order to destroy it from within. The first and second Muslim wars were ignited by him. All his heresies are what form the fundamentals of Shia religion today! Shi'a is a Jewish movement in Islam. Whoever embraces it will be grouped with the Jews hereafter. 4. Shia curse all the Prophet's great Companions whom Allah highly eulogises in the Qur'an. They curse especially Abubakr and Umar the closest friends and disciples of the Prophet and his in-laws! They even curse the wives of the Prophet while Allah says they are the mothers of the Believers (Q33:6)! By all stretch of imagination could those breeds of people ever be Muslim? I think it is the Prophet himself they wanted to disparage but for fear of being easily exposed. They only say La ilaaha illallah Muhammad Rasuullah but they don't believe in it. 5. They have conferred sacredness on themselves and their lands without evidence from Allah or His Messenger. And the most hateful of all places to Shi'a are the most beloved to Allah- the cradle of Islam which Allah Himself and His Prophet sanctified! Could those people be Muslim? 7. The Prophet said, "The worst matters are the religious innovations" All acts of worship of the Shi'a are innovations which the Messenger of Allah never knew. Shi'a religion is the worst thing to have happened in this Ummah. 8. The second caliph, Umar the great was killed inside the mosque of the Prophet Muhammad in Madina while he was leading Fajr prayer. Do you know who killed him? It was Abu Lu'lua,a Persian magian (an Iranian). Do you know that there is an adored mausoleum in Iran built in honor of this sadist criminal who killed Umar? Allah says "And the first to embrace Islam of the Muhajirun (those who migrated from Makkah to Al-Madinah) and the Ansar (the citizens of Al-Madinah who helped and gave aid to the Muhajirun) and also those who followed them exactly (in Faith). Allah is well-pleased with them as they are well-pleased with Him. He has prepared for them Gardens under which rivers flow (Paradise), to dwell therein forever. That is the supreme success." Q9:100 Unless one is a stack hypocrite who is bereft of all reason and humanity, one can never dare disparage the blessed people about whom Allah said the above? 9. Allah says the Prophet's Companions are the most fortunate amongst the believers while the Shi'a say they are the worst. Aren't Shi'a then among the worst creatures for brazenly contradicting their Lord? 10. If it isn't a conspiracy what is the business of Shi'a about what happened between people of about 13 centuries ago? And there was no truly recorded enmity between them: Umar married a daughter of Ali; Ali adopted Muhammad the son of Abubakr after the latter's demise. Some of Ali's children were named after Abubakr, Umar and Uthman. Shi'a religion is a straight way to Jahannam!

OPEN LETTER TO ALH. ALIKO DANGOTE, (GCON)

OPEN LETTER TO ALH. ALIKO DANGOTE, (GCON) Dear Sir, It is with great humility that I sent this letter to you. I am not sure it will get to you though, but I'm hoping and relying on the power of social media share button that, perhaps, it will. If however, you receive this letter, please note that I desire nothing personal, but the pleasure of Allah over you and well being of the Muslims at large. Sir, you know very sure that you have been greatly favoured by Allah among the entire black race in Africa and elsewhere, even among men of other colours, as no name makes echo than yours across Africa. Your business is progressing and expanding on a daily basis and no household, at least, here in Nigeria, can do without your product. Even when our nation is experiencing economic crisis, your business and wealth continues to grow without limit. Such is the favour of Allah over you. Sir, my greatest concern is about your Zakat, the fourth pillar of Islam, binding upon you as a Muslim. As a Muslim from Kano , I'm sure you knew more than I know about the importance of Zakat in the life of a wealthy Muslim. If our noble prophet Muhammad (saw) were to be alive today, you definitely would be noticed by him, and his message to you would centered on Zakat. Sir, I am not saying you are not paying Zakat, but the impact of your Zakat payment is yet to be seen; it should have been seen. I say this because the extent of your wealth is no longer a secret across the world. For example, it was reported that, as of today, you are the richest Black African with about $25 billion. The Forbes also ranked you as the 67th Richest person in the world of more than 7 billion people! Your investment cut across the globe, you are healthy and millions of people across the world earns their livelihood through you. Sir, "Which of Your Lord's Favours would you Deny?" (Q.55) Sir, $25bn is about 5trillion Naira, that is the size of Nigeria's annual budget, which has about 140 millions citizens. Sir, assuming you can pay 2.5% mandatory Zakat on 3trillion Naira only from your wealth, that would be some 75bn Naira! Sir, with 75bn Naira made available yearly as Zakat for the vulnerable Muslims, starting from Kano, you can save Islam from its battered image. You will agree with me sir, that boko haram was able to recruits young people because there is too much poverty among the Muslims. Your Zakat can free no less than 500,000 Muslims every year from poverty if your Zakat is properly used. The gap between Sunni-Shia Muslims may also be considerably reduced and the fortune of Islam and Muslims will rise again. Sir, your Zakat alone can defeat the terrorists which have turned most Muslim countries of the world to war theater. In conclusion sir, help cross-check those who handle your Zakat to properly administer it so that the blessings of Allah becomes manifold. May your wealth continues to grow, and may your history never end in the manner of the richest man in the life-time of Prophet Musa (AS). Thank you sir, Your Daughter in Islam,  Ajimot Ashogbon. NB: To those who may share this letter until it gets to you, it is my prayers that they will never be victims of poverty in their life-time. Aamin.